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Workshop open for preorders
I've been preoccupied for the last few weeks. You might have noticed. Need more screens Well, the workshop on How to Break Free of Obsessive Thought Loops in limerence is now, officially, …
More thoughts on obsessive thoughts
Busy with travelling and finishing the workshop this week, so here's my latest video on how intrusive thoughts and rumination make addiction worse. https://youtu.be/zNJnOtO7aCk Reminder that …
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New workshop on obsessive thought loops
For a while now I've been talking about a new workshop I'm building, specifically designed to help deal with one of the worst problems caused by limerence: obsessive thought loops. Look, here I am …
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Coffeehouse: AI and limerence
Well, well, will you look at that. Another month has rolled by. Time for another visit to the endless thread that is the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Double addiction To kick off the discussion …
When limerence changes history
I recently spent a week in Kent. For those who are not so familiar with British geography, Kent is the county south east of London that includes the coastline at Dover that faces France across the …
Being in denial
A really interesting discussion broke out recently in the Surviving Partner Limerence community, about the phenomenon of denial. Some limerents flat out refuse to accept that there is any problem …