Welcome to Living with Limerence! I've been writing this blog since 2017, and in that time it has grown quite large. Consequently, when newcomers arrive these days it can be difficult for them to …
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Coffeehouse: autumn thoughts
Well, it's November. Another month has passed by. That means it's time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Hang on. You're not daydreaming abouT LO at the back there are you? To …
The five forces that drive romantic obsession
Sometimes love can be overwhelming. We can fall so hard that we end up becoming obsessed with another person—until we literally can’t get them out of our head. This is a mental state known as …
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I just need to get them out of my system
There’s an unusual phenomenon that sometimes happens during unwanted limerence where a limerent, in the throes of a painful and overwhelming emotional need that is in conflict with the practicalities …
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Limerence case studies
A couple of months ago, I laid out a plan for what I wanted to achieve with Living with Limerence in the months ahead. Part 1 of the plan was to create some workshops to solve specific limerence …
Inside Love podcast
I was recently invited onto the San Francisco NPR affiliate KQED, as part of their ongoing series "Inside Love". It was a great chat with their host Lesley McClurg about all things limerence. …
Coffeehouse: social media expectancy
It’s October. Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffee house. Java jive My week has been super busy with prep for the Obsessive Thoughts Workshop. It’s launching in 8 hours time. Last …
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