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Life as a limerent: autopilot mode
Note: this is a revised and updated version of a previous post. One of the most disruptive aspects of limerence is the total attention-capture that sets in. At first, most limerents are OK with …
Launch of partner’s community
For a few weeks now, I've been trailing the launch of a new online community specifically tailored to the partners of people who have become limerent for someone else, putting their marriage or …
Why you can’t stop wanting them
A back-to-basics video this week on why limerence happens and is so hard to escape: https://youtu.be/XbJ-JsYFtMk?si=tQEyIoP-f4wDRorZ Does love sometimes feel overpowering? Like you’ve been …
Coffeehouse: Anyone for tango?
Another month, another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Slurp This week there’s an unexpected topic for conversation. I had an email from a reader who is also a keen tango dancer, and fan …
Reasons why limerence affairs don’t last
If your long-term partner develops limerence for someone else, it can be disastrous. By definition, limerents are not in their right mind, and many can instinctively follow their emotions through …
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Could Ozempic “cure” limerence?
That might seem like a clickbait title, but it’s actually a serious question. Although limerence is not a disease to be cured, it can certainly have a negative impact on life. I often get asked …