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Quiz: is your partner experiencing limerence?
Sometimes life throws awful trials at you. One such trial is the threat of infidelity in a long-term relationship. I occasionally get emails from people who have noticed a change in their …
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Oversharing
Note: This is an updated version of an older blog post. One of the common symptoms of limerence, is an overwhelming desire to tell your limerent object everything about yourself. Many limerents …
Coffeehouse: parasocial limerence
Another month has passed, meaning it's time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Drink up! To start the conversation this month, I want to talk about something that is coming up in …
Why so many relationships fail
This week's video is all about the conflict between the two tribes and how that can lead to heartache: https://youtu.be/L89OO5hHJhE It’s a sad fact that romantic relationships can fall apart …
Surviving Partner Limerence
Earlier this month, Fenna van den Berg and I launched a new community site for people whose partners have developed limerence for someone outside the relationship. Since then, we’ve been very busy …
How to tell if someone actually finds you attractive
My last YouTube video was stimulated by finding a new paper on how bad people are at judging each others attempts at mindreading romantic and sexual interest. I've written about this topic before, …
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