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Life, love, and limerence
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The publication date for the UK edition of Smitten is imminent - next tuesday, April 8th. It's the best summary of everything I've learned about limerence since starting the blog. I'm proud of it. …
Over the last few weeks, I've been doing a fair amount of promotional work for my new book Smitten. You might have noticed I’ve done a few podcasts now, and inevitably - understandably - one of …
Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse, this time with a big advertising hoarding in the doorway! As a thank you to everyone who pre-orders the book, I'm releasing some bonus …
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By Tom (Dr L)
This week's video is about that most painful of limerent situations: what to do if you are married but limerent for someone else. https://youtu.be/kX-DkQPwucU?si=HEk5QkCoKgNNRDX8 It breaks …
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I recently spoke to Gabriela Houston on her podcast, the Gabriela Houston Project, all about limerence. https://youtu.be/byYYlRv53wE?si=OK3zRnrpHxWZU4aP Aside from learning that I need a new …
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Just a quick update post this week, as I've been doing a lot of outreach. Here is the latest news... This week's YouTube video revisits the classic question of why you can't get over your …
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Another trip to the LwL coffeehouse for some genial banter. Ah, ha, ha, ha. Splendid japes, wot? This week's YouTube video turned out to be a bit of an epic effort. It's on the topic of the …
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By Tom (Dr L)
Posting a day ahead of schedule to hit the annual romantic milestone of Valentine's Day. BullsEYE! This week's YouTube video is all about finding solace in times of romantic distress, by …
By Tom (Dr L)
Another case study post today, all about the problems of long-distance limerence, or perhaps, in fact, the problems of long-distance uncertainty. Here’s the dilemma from reader Laura: LO and I …
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By Tom (Dr L)
At various points in the past, I've written about the power of stories and how we can be attracted to archetypal figures, but I've never really gone deep on the topic because (I have to confess) I …
By Tom (Dr L)
Welcome to Living with Limerence! I've been writing this blog since 2017, and in that time it has grown quite large. Consequently, when newcomers arrive these days it can be difficult for them to …