Life, love, and limerence
Note: this is an updated version of a previous post Limerence is a wild ride. A giddying, intoxicating, romantic high that takes over your mind and makes one person the absolute focal point of …
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Another month, another visit to LwL virtual coffeehouse. Let's get gossiping Today's conversation starter is a wryly double-meaninged title about muses. It comes from a tweet (still calling …
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Another video this week, all about the habits that makes some people especially addictive. You can also test out the new and improved online assessment to find out How addictive is my limerent …
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Sometimes life throws awful trials at you. One such trial is the threat of infidelity in a long-term relationship. I occasionally get emails from people who have noticed a change in their …
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Note: This is an updated version of an older blog post. One of the common symptoms of limerence, is an overwhelming desire to tell your limerent object everything about yourself. Many limerents …
Another month has passed, meaning it's time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Drink up! To start the conversation this month, I want to talk about something that is coming up in …
This week's video is all about the conflict between the two tribes and how that can lead to heartache: https://youtu.be/L89OO5hHJhE It’s a sad fact that romantic relationships can fall apart …
Earlier this month, Fenna van den Berg and I launched a new community site for people whose partners have developed limerence for someone outside the relationship. Since then, we’ve been very busy …
My last YouTube video was stimulated by finding a new paper on how bad people are at judging each others attempts at mindreading romantic and sexual interest. I've written about this topic before, …
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Another month rolls around, and brings another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse endless thread. I'll never tire of the stimulation To kick off the discussions this month, here's an …
Note: this is a revised and updated version of a previous post. One of the most disruptive aspects of limerence is the total attention-capture that sets in. At first, most limerents are OK with …
For a few weeks now, I've been trailing the launch of a new online community specifically tailored to the partners of people who have become limerent for someone else, putting their marriage or …
