Life, love, and limerence
There’s an unusual phenomenon that sometimes happens during unwanted limerence where a limerent, in the throes of a painful and overwhelming emotional need that is in conflict with the practicalities …
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A couple of months ago, I laid out a plan for what I wanted to achieve with Living with Limerence in the months ahead. Part 1 of the plan was to create some workshops to solve specific limerence …
I was recently invited onto the San Francisco NPR affiliate KQED, as part of their ongoing series "Inside Love". It was a great chat with their host Lesley McClurg about all things limerence. …
It’s October. Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffee house. Java jive My week has been super busy with prep for the Obsessive Thoughts Workshop. It’s launching in 8 hours time. Last …
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I've been preoccupied for the last few weeks. You might have noticed. Need more screens Well, the workshop on How to Break Free of Obsessive Thought Loops in limerence is now, officially, …
Busy with travelling and finishing the workshop this week, so here's my latest video on how intrusive thoughts and rumination make addiction worse. https://youtu.be/zNJnOtO7aCk Reminder that …
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For a while now I've been talking about a new workshop I'm building, specifically designed to help deal with one of the worst problems caused by limerence: obsessive thought loops. Look, here I am …
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Well, well, will you look at that. Another month has rolled by. Time for another visit to the endless thread that is the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Double addiction To kick off the discussion …
I recently spent a week in Kent. For those who are not so familiar with British geography, Kent is the county south east of London that includes the coastline at Dover that faces France across the …
A really interesting discussion broke out recently in the Surviving Partner Limerence community, about the phenomenon of denial. Some limerents flat out refuse to accept that there is any problem …
One of the most distressing and disruptive symptoms of limerence is the onset of obsessive, intrusive thoughts. The "can't get them out of your head" effect. Early on in the limerence …
It's summer. It's hot. I'm currently on holiday. That means that this month's check in at the LwL virtual coffeehouse is a totally open thread. Catch up and gossip you marvellous people :) …
