One of the great things for me about running living with limerence is that I can write about whatever I like, correspond with lots of different people, and not worry too much about algorithms and such.
This contrasts quite strikingly with, say, YouTube.
My videos over there are necessarily more targeted. I’m posting on someone else’s platform, and to reach the people I want to reach, I have to be consistent in what I make videos about.
I don’t want to bore you with the details, but all my old posts about infidelity, morality, monogamy, purposeful living, and so on, would likely confuse YouTube’s AI about who I am trying to talk to, and why.
Having to think in this way has also made me remember that a significant portion of my audience here at LwL are not limerents. They are people who are trying to find out information about limerence, sometimes because of the indirect impact that limerence has had on their lives.
These are the partners of limerents, who are seeking quite different support from limerents themselves.
We recently launched an online community for partners, but it also struck me that the resources here on LwL for partners are scattered all over the place, and in a blog archive of over 478 posts (and counting), that’s quite a lot of searching.
So, to simplify and organise things better, Fenna and I have built a new website, specifically for partners.
It’s here:
We’re already added some resources and information, and are going to be building up more articles specifically written from the perspective of partners in the near future.
So, if you are here at LwL because you want help and guidance with managing limerence in your marriage or long-term relationship, check it out!
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