It’s July. It’s very hot in the UK. Must be time for a nice steaming cup of coffee.

I usually try to use the summer break as a chance to catch up and reflect. To think about where effort would be well focused for the second half of the year.
I currently have a lot of projects on the go, so do need to get better at prioritising.
So, that’s what I thought I would use this edition of the coffeehouse to ask you all about.
What would you like to see ahead in the future of LwL?
Here are a few options:
- Limerence recovery bootcamps
- More Case Studies posts (and videos?)
- Online workshops on how to tackle the hardest problems (e.g. intrusive thoughts, limiting contact, finding purpose, dealing with the grief of loss, etc.)
- An online community for limerents, similar to our community for partners
- Other…?
So, let me know your thoughts. What would make LwL more useful for you?
All ideas welcomed!

You’ve touched down on so many important issues but even though it’s already been discussed I wish you could do more research and take a deeper dive into why some random person comes out of nowhere and hits you like a freight train?
What is going on in your life to make you so vulnerable? Is it the brains way of dealing with childhood trauma or neglect or is that just useless theory’s?
Is there a way to dig into your past and crack the code as to what is causing this?