For a few weeks now, I’ve been trailing the launch of a new online community specifically tailored to the partners of people who have become limerent for someone else, putting their marriage or long-term relationship in jeopardy.
We now have a launch date: Weds April 8th, at 5 pm UK time.
Fenna and I will be running a webinar to go through the purpose of the community, what are goals are, what it will include, and how you can join as a founder member.

The details will be sent out to everyone on the waitlist, so if you would like to attend the webinar, make sure you sign up soon!
The registration will only being going to the waitlist members, so it is your last chance to be involved.
If you have any questions already, just drop them in the comments below…

Just an extra note to add: if you are on the waitlist and don’t receive a registration email in the next couple of days, check promotions and spam folders. It’s often hard to predict how the email providers categorise mail…
I feel like something is off in my relationship and I don’t know what to do
I don’t usually post things like this, but I really need advice.
Lately, my partner has been acting differently—always on their phone, turning the screen away, and being more distant than usual. I tried to ignore it at first, but it’s starting to mess with my head.
I’m not trying to jump to conclusions, but my gut feeling is telling me something isn’t right. I don’t want to accuse them wrongly, but I also don’t want to be blind to something serious.
It’s usually worth paying attention to your intuition on this, Najaj. It might be innocent, but when you notice a change in behaviour that concerns you, ignoring it is rarely a good idea. You’ll likely just turn the worry inwards and it’ll get worse.
Try raising it with your partner in a neutral way if you can. Something like “What’s happening? You seem distracted.” when they are engrossed on their phone. How they react may tell you more about how they are feeling.