A really interesting discussion broke out recently in the Surviving Partner Limerence community, about the phenomenon of denial. Some limerents flat out refuse to accept that there is any problem …
Should limerents feel guilty about their limerence?
Note: this is an updated version of a previous post Limerence is a wild ride. A giddying, intoxicating, romantic high that takes over your mind and makes one person the absolute focal point of …
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Why so many relationships fail
This week's video is all about the conflict between the two tribes and how that can lead to heartache: https://youtu.be/L89OO5hHJhE It’s a sad fact that romantic relationships can fall apart …
Surviving Partner Limerence
Earlier this month, Fenna van den Berg and I launched a new community site for people whose partners have developed limerence for someone outside the relationship. Since then, we’ve been very busy …
Launch of partner’s community
For a few weeks now, I've been trailing the launch of a new online community specifically tailored to the partners of people who have become limerent for someone else, putting their marriage or …
Partner’s community
For those you've been following the blog for some time, you might remember a project I started over a year and a half ago to try and help people whose long-term relationships had been harmed by their …





