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One of the philosophical pillars of this site is that limerence isn't in itself a problem; it becomes a problem when the …
I've discovered Canva. It's fun. Here's an infographic that summarises the key stages of a limerence episode that …
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Uncertainty is central to limerence. It fuels the rumination that drives it (do they like me too? What did that comment …
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