Welcome to Living with Limerence
Learn all about limerence and how to live with it, how to improve your relationships as a limerent (or partner of a limerent), and how to recover when you are caught in the mental trap of obsessive infatuation.
Unlock the knowledge that can help you thrive.
What is limerence?
Information about limerence and how to manage it
A guide for professionals
The evidence base for limerence summarised for coaches and therapists
How to get rid of limerence
Practical steps to overcoming destructive infatuation
The essential guide to limerence
Everything you ever wanted to know about limerence and how to live with it in one handy guide
The Limerence quiz
Are you a limerent? Find out by taking this quick quiz:
The Blog
All the latest articles about limerence and how to survive it.
Latest comments
R.I.P. Helen Fisher
Helen Fisher, one of the most influential writers and researchers in the field of love, died at the end of August.…
The madness of limerence
In the last post I made the case for limerence causing a collapse of self-discipline, which I termed “appetite supremacy”, and…
Calling all London limerents
Hi Folks. Now I’m out as myself, I’m starting to do some in-person events. The first one is in London on…
Why limerents behave irresponsibly
In last week’s open thread, I mentioned a phenomenon that affected me during limerence, when I could feel my sense of…
Coffeehouse: open thread
It’s been a busy week for me this week, and one of those times where I’ve abortively started two or three…
Dodgy limerent objects
At various times over the years, I’ve written about the difficulties presented by becoming limerent for certain types of people. The…
Quickstart guides and online courses
All the resources we have for how to survive limerence and live with purpose. Find the support you need.
Contact
Find out more about Dr L and the living with limerence community