Welcome to Living with Limerence
Learn all about limerence and how to live with it, how to improve your relationships as a limerent (or partner of a limerent), and how to recover when you are caught in the mental trap of obsessive infatuation.
Unlock the knowledge that can help you thrive.
What is limerence?
Information about limerence and how to manage it
A guide for professionals
The evidence base for limerence summarised for coaches and therapists
How to get rid of limerence
Practical steps to overcoming destructive infatuation
The essential guide to limerence
Everything you ever wanted to know about limerence and how to live with it in one handy guide
The Limerence quiz
Are you a limerent? Find out by taking this quick quiz:
The Blog
All the latest articles about limerence and how to survive it.
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Limerence is in vogue
Sorry, couldn’t resist the pun. The latest issue of Vogue has an article on limerence written by Fleur Britten. I had…
Case study: I want him to be limerent for me
Most of the correspondence I receive falls into one of two popular categories: “I’m limerent but don’t want to be” or…
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Coffeehouse: the problem of ego
One of the factors that can make an LO “sticky” for single limerents is the ego-bruising disappointment that we were not…
How to change your behaviour for the better
One of the few benefits that can come from an episode of unwanted limerence is being forced to face some home…
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What causes a crush to develop?
Ah, the bittersweet agony of a crush. That awful mix of exhilaration and anxiety, boldness and insecurity, hope and fear, giddiness…
Unanswered questions about limerence
From time to time I speak with journalists about limerence and its implications. The latest time was just this week, and…
Quickstart guides, community forum and online courses
All the resources we have for how to survive limerence and live with purpose. Find the support you need.
Contact
Find out more about Dr L and the living with limerence community