Welcome to Living with Limerence
Learn all about limerence and how to live with it, how to improve your relationships as a limerent (or partner of a limerent), and how to recover when you are caught in the mental trap of obsessive infatuation.
Unlock the knowledge that can help you thrive.
What is limerence?
Information about limerence and how to manage it
A guide for professionals
The evidence base for limerence summarised for coaches and therapists
How to get rid of limerence
Practical steps to overcoming destructive infatuation
The essential guide to limerence
Everything you ever wanted to know about limerence and how to live with it in one handy guide
The Limerence quiz
Are you a limerent? Find out by taking this quick quiz:
The Blog
All the latest articles about limerence and how to survive it.
Latest comments
Coffeehouse: bonding
The monthly trip to the LwL virtual coffeehouse is here. Your stimulant, sir This week I just have a few announcements…
Tell me your biggest limerence problems
I get lots of emails. Lots of people are struggling with limerence. Understandable, really, given that addiction to another person has…
Finding purposeful work
Last summer, after a quarter of a century working as an academic scientist, I quit my job. Some of my friends…
Bits and pieces of news
Another busy week in the Bellamy household, so just a quick update on events this week. First up is the latest…
Youtube milestone and job opening
Yay! I hit the 10K subs milestone on my YouTube channel this morning. I’ve also hit the point where I need…
Coffeehouse: what being a limerent means for your love life
The time has come for another open house discussion thread in the LwL Coffeehouse. *Sslluurrpp* This week, I have a specific…
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Need urgent help with limerence?
The Emergency Deprogramming Course is a proven system to escape the altered mental state of limerence and recover your freedom.
Quickstart guides and online courses
All the resources we have for how to survive limerence and live with purpose. Find the support you need.
Contact
Find out more about Dr L and the living with limerence community