Welcome to Living with Limerence
Learn all about limerence and how to live with it, how to improve your relationships as a limerent (or partner of a limerent), and how to recover when you are caught in the mental trap of obsessive infatuation.
Unlock the knowledge that can help you thrive.
What is limerence?
Information about limerence and how to manage it
A guide for professionals
The evidence base for limerence summarised for coaches and therapists
How to get rid of limerence
Practical steps to overcoming destructive infatuation
The essential guide to limerence
Everything you ever wanted to know about limerence and how to live with it in one handy guide
The Limerence quiz
Are you a limerent? Find out by taking this quick quiz:
The Blog
All the latest articles about limerence and how to survive it.
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Reasons why limerence affairs don’t last
If your long-term partner develops limerence for someone else, it can be disastrous. By definition, limerents are not in their right…
Could Ozempic “cure” limerence?
That might seem like a clickbait title, but it’s actually a serious question. Although limerence is not a disease to be…
Even worse than unrequited love
https://youtu.be/kPYHsFbLLKs Unrequited love is awful. Desperately longing for someone who doesn’t feel the same way is a hopeless, demoralising state. But…
Coffeehouse: frontal lobes and love
Another visit to the LwL coffeehouse – the open thread where any topic of conversation is fair game. Even Gossip To…
Partner’s community
For those you’ve been following the blog for some time, you might remember a project I started over a year and…
Seven signs of toxic limerence
This week’s YouTube video is all about how to tell when you’ve been limerent for too long: https://youtu.be/BnTOkHFTQRs?si=eqhp_LIcujSPBf8V Half the population…
Need urgent help with limerence?
The Emergency Deprogramming Course is a proven system to escape the altered mental state of limerence and recover your freedom.
Quickstart guides and online courses
All the resources we have for how to survive limerence and live with purpose. Find the support you need.
Contact
Find out more about Dr L and the living with limerence community