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What is limerence?
Information about limerence and how to manage it
A guide for professionals
The evidence base for limerence summarised for coaches and therapists
How to get rid of limerence
Practical steps to overcoming destructive infatuation
The essential guide to limerence
Everything you ever wanted to know about limerence and how to live with it in one handy guide
The Limerence quiz
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The Blog
All the latest articles about limerence and how to survive it.
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Life as a limerent: autopilot mode
Note: this is a revised and updated version of a previous post. One of the most disruptive aspects of limerence is…
Launch of partner’s community
For a few weeks now, I’ve been trailing the launch of a new online community specifically tailored to the partners of…
Why you can’t stop wanting them
A back-to-basics video this week on why limerence happens and is so hard to escape: https://youtu.be/XbJ-JsYFtMk?si=tQEyIoP-f4wDRorZ Does love sometimes feel overpowering?…
Coffeehouse: Anyone for tango?
Another month, another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Slurp This week there’s an unexpected topic for conversation. I had an…
Reasons why limerence affairs don’t last
If your long-term partner develops limerence for someone else, it can be disastrous. By definition, limerents are not in their right…
Could Ozempic “cure” limerence?
That might seem like a clickbait title, but it’s actually a serious question. Although limerence is not a disease to be…
Need urgent help with limerence?
The Emergency Deprogramming Course is a proven system to escape the altered mental state of limerence and recover your freedom.
Quickstart guides and online courses
All the resources we have for how to survive limerence and live with purpose. Find the support you need.
Contact
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