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Learn all about limerence and how to live with it, how to improve your relationships as a limerent (or partner of a limerent), and how to recover when you are caught in the mental trap of obsessive infatuation.
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What is limerence?
Information about limerence and how to manage it
A guide for professionals
The evidence base for limerence summarised for coaches and therapists
How to get rid of limerence
Practical steps to overcoming destructive infatuation
The essential guide to limerence
Everything you ever wanted to know about limerence and how to live with it in one handy guide
The Limerence quiz
Are you a limerent? Find out by taking this quick quiz:
The Blog
All the latest articles about limerence and how to survive it.
Latest comments
How risky are limerent fantasies?
Limerent reverie – daydreaming and fantasising about consummation with your limerent object – is a habit that almost all limerents indulge…
Limerence limbo
Note: this is an updated version of an older post. One of the most disruptive mental traps linked to limerence is…
How to get over an office crush
When you put a group of attractive people together, in an environment where they work closely on collaborative projects, they sometimes…
Coffeehouse: the search for meaning
Time for another general discussion post; a place for all the chit chat that might arise in a congenial coffee house…
On jealousy
Following on from last week’s case study, and discussions of infidelity and polyamory in the comments, here’s an interesting video about…
Keeping secrets
One of the best ways to understand limerence is as an altered state of mind that constitutes addiction to another person.…
Quickstart guides, community forum and online courses
All the resources we have for how to survive limerence and live with purpose. Find the support you need.
Contact
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