I've been preoccupied for the last few weeks. You might have noticed. Need more screens Well, the workshop on How to Break Free of Obsessive Thought Loops in limerence is now, officially, …
New workshop on obsessive thought loops
For a while now I've been talking about a new workshop I'm building, specifically designed to help deal with one of the worst problems caused by limerence: obsessive thought loops. Look, here I am …
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Coffeehouse: AI and limerence
Well, well, will you look at that. Another month has rolled by. Time for another visit to the endless thread that is the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Double addiction To kick off the discussion …
How obsessive thoughts develop
One of the most distressing and disruptive symptoms of limerence is the onset of obsessive, intrusive thoughts. The "can't get them out of your head" effect. Early on in the limerence …
Escape from limerence when you can’t go No Contact
This week's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j5uFIpp6Gy0 If you’re trapped in a mental state of limerence—a state of intense romantic infatuation—one of the best ways to recover is to go …
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Could Ozempic “cure” limerence?
That might seem like a clickbait title, but it’s actually a serious question. Although limerence is not a disease to be cured, it can certainly have a negative impact on life. I often get asked …





