That might seem like a clickbait title, but it’s actually a serious question. Although limerence is not a disease to be cured, it can certainly have a negative impact on life. I often get asked …
The biggest limerence problems, reviewed
Back in the summer I asked the LwL community about the biggest problems that limerents face. It's taken me a while to go through them, but I've finally got around the compiling all the questions …
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Maturing out of addictions
I sometimes try to imagine what early love feels like for non-limerents. One of the tragedies of the two tribes, is that we each make assumptions about what the other is thinking or feeling based …
Dealing with limerence guilt
There are many painful aspects to being trapped in limerence. Once the thrills of euphoria have given way to the lows of person addiction, you have all the negative consequences of cravings, …
Integrity
Note: this is an updated version of an earlier post One of the best ways of managing the emotional assault of limerence is to work on understanding yourself. Work to increase your …
Tell me your biggest limerence problems
I get lots of emails. Lots of people are struggling with limerence. Understandable, really, given that addiction to another person has a hugely disruptive effect on life. What? I'm …
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