Note: this is an updated version of an older post. Limerence upends life. Whatever your situation when a new LO appears in your world, everything changes. The disruption is probably …
Integrity
Note: this is an updated version of an earlier post One of the best ways of managing the emotional assault of limerence is to work on understanding yourself. Work to increase your …
Finding purposeful work
Last summer, after a quarter of a century working as an academic scientist, I quit my job. Some of my friends thought I was mad. Tenured positions in elite universities are highly sought after, I’d …
What does it mean to be purposeful?
Note: This post is a reprint of a recent newsletter which is the start of a new series on purposeful living. If you'd like to sign up to get my newsletter, join below! The best cure for …
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Questions to ask if you are married but limerent for someone else
This week's video is about that most painful of limerent situations: what to do if you are married but limerent for someone else. https://youtu.be/kX-DkQPwucU?si=HEk5QkCoKgNNRDX8 It breaks …
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Finding purpose at home
New Year is always a time when I reflect on the concept of purposeful living and planning for the coming year. Usually that means getting all excited about new projects, new goals, and new …