Life, love, and limerence
Another visit to the LwL coffeehouse - the open thread where any topic of conversation is fair game. Even Gossip To kick off the discussion this month, here's a new post I wrote on Psychology …
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For those you've been following the blog for some time, you might remember a project I started over a year and a half ago to try and help people whose long-term relationships had been harmed by their …
This week's YouTube video is all about how to tell when you've been limerent for too long: https://youtu.be/BnTOkHFTQRs?si=eqhp_LIcujSPBf8V Half the population of the world experience early …
I’ve previously written about the fact that limerence has both universal and personal aspects. The operation of the reward system in the brain follows predictable rules. When a reward is …
Another month flies by, which means it’s time for a visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse. Where we dazzle the philosophers with the brilliance of our insights The conversation starter for this …
Following on from last week’s guest post on the history of love research, the central point that “it’s often simply unclear who is talking about what,” captures a lot of the difficulties of …
One of the headaches of working on limerence is that scholarly research on love suffers from a problem of definitions. Lots of the words we use in everyday life to talk about love have been used (and …
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Happy New Year to everyone at LwL! Here's my latest video on what makes some people especially addictive. Enjoy! https://youtu.be/VpKXmZx7-1s?si=LdAoKl36qCqYTWFX …
Happy Christmas LwL peeps! This seasonal trip to the virtual coffeehouse was inspired by Onyx, who emailed to suggest that the relationship between Iris and Jasper in the romantic comedy "The …
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I generally talk about limerence as runaway reward seeking—as person addiction in the sense of chasing the intoxicating high of the limerent object. Gimme gimme gimme That’s definitely the route …
One of the key principles for recovery from limerence here at LwL is: limerence is happening in your head. I stick by that principle, as it's both true and useful. Nobody else can fix the …
Back in the summer I asked the LwL community about the biggest problems that limerents face. It's taken me a while to go through them, but I've finally got around the compiling all the questions …
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