Life, love, and limerence
Today's topic of discussion is proposed by Cassie: You wrote about transfer to other relationships in a previous blog. After months and months of thinking what to do, I have just ended one …
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Today's case study is a good one. Serena got in touch about how to deal with a tough problem: when no contact doesn't work. The backstory is a little complicated, so I'll summarise the highlights. …
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One of the most destructive forms of limerence is when a married person becomes limerent for someone else. There is an abundance of pain to go around: most obviously for the innocent spouse, but also …
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One of the more painful scenarios that limerents have to deal with is when their limerence avatar is "unavailable people". I've written before about the challenges of unavailable LOs. It's a …
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Today's topic was proposed by reader Mana, who wondered about the benefits of writing a letter to LO. That struck me as a subject that could benefit from the distributed wisdom of the LwL community, …
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It is an agony most of us have known: you develop romantic feelings for a friend, but they don't feel the same way about you. The disappointment of rejection hurts, of course, but even more serious is …
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