One of the questions I was asked last week by the producers at Treefort was "why do limerents feel guilty?" Having had time to reflect, I think I kind of fluffed that question. I talked mainly …
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A video on romantic love
Super busy at the moment, working on a new course for the site plus real life everyday work too. In lieu of a proper post, here's a thought provoking video from Helen …
Calling all limerents and LOs
Hi, All. Quick announcement: I've been contacted by a production company who are preparing a podcast on limerence and obsessive love for the LA times. They are keen to interview limerents about …
On infidelity, moral philosophy, and commenting policy
The previous post presented a particularly thorny limerence dilemma, and inadvertently also highlighted some of the difficulties presented when discussing emotionally incendiary topics. Like …
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Case study: limerent for a close family friend
From time to time, I receive a message from someone with a particularly thorny limerence problem, for whom the usual strategies are impractical. How's this for a tricky one? "Creative limerent" …
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Withdrawal pains
Once a limerent has resolved to take control and cut contact with LO, an almost inevitable consequence is the arrival of withdrawal pains. I talk a lot about limerence being understandable as …