Goodness me. Another Christmas has rolled around.
2021 has been quite a year. As if to cement the drama, my family has finally been hit by covid, having previously managed to dodge it through two years of pandemic. Unfortunately, it got me a couple of days ago, meaning all Christmas plans have been thrown into disarray, and I’ll not be able to see elderly relatives this year. Plus, you know, I feel pretty grotty.
Events like this are a reminder that life doesn’t always respect your plans, and all you can do is adapt to the situation at hand.
As for many other families, death has come uncomfortably close to us this year. Some of those elderly relatives I can’t visit because of the virus won’t be with us next Christmas. Some friends and family left us for good this year – a couple, unexpectedly. A sobering reminder that midwinter is often the darkest part of the year in more ways than one.
But, it is also the start of a new year, and Christmas has always seemed to me a poignant festival. It’s inherited some of the pagan traditions of bringing nature into the home in the darkest recesses of winter, and having a huge feast – fiercely defiant in the face of a bitter, frozen world. Added to that ancient rebellion against death, is the Christian vision of the birth of a redeemer, a guiding star, an embodiment of divine hope.
You don’t necessarily need to accept any of those beliefs to be stirred by the spirit of rebirth, and the optimism of looking towards the deliverance of spring.
I’ve talked before about the importance of archetypal stories in making sense of the world, and this is a good example of the principle. The end of the year, and the hibernation of winter, is also a prelude to the coming of spring.
So, with those slightly maudlin thoughts from an ill and dreary Dr L out of the way, I’d like to wish everyone in the LwL community a Happy Christmas and a Purposeful New Year.
Wherever you are, whatever is going on in life, there is always hope for a brighter year to come.
Reader says
I hope you and your family feel much better soon Dr L. Also wishing you and everyone here a “Purposeful New Year” – might just be my favorite new greeting.
Blue Ivy says
Wish you and your family a speedy recovery Dr L.
This site has been a gift. ❤
Wish everyone peace-in-mind in 2022!
LimerentHeartache says
I hope you and your family feel better soon! Thank you for all that you do and this amazing site.
Limerent Emeritus says
Best wishes for 2022!
Rich says
Best wishes for the New Year and better health.
Jaideux says
Dearest Dr.L,
I am so sorry to hear that you are sick, and will miss seeing beloved relatives, and that you have lost family members and friends. 2021 has been heart wrenching indeed.
But please know how your selflessness with this site has helped so many, in life-changing ways, and perhaps in some small way that can bring solace to you now.
I do believe that better times are coming and there are reasons to be confident about the future. Peace on earth is not just a dream or a myth.
I hope you make a speedy recovery and I hope you are able to enjoy loving and memorable times with the loved ones in your household whilst you recover.
Looking forward to your next missive whenever you feel up to putting quill to paper! (or fingers to keyboard).
drlimerence says
Thanks, all, for the kind words and well wishes.
Family doing fine. Worst outcome for me at the moment is complete loss of smell and taste, so missing out on the usual Christmas treats. Makes it easy to resist temptation, though!
IAmGroot says
Best wishes for a swift return to full health, and for the coming new year.
Thank you as always for all you do to help people.
Peta says
Wishing you a speedy recovery Dr L – a covid Christmas here too. Thank you for the most precious gift you continue to give us all – this priceless body of work.