Note: This is an old post that lays out a few tactics for how to get rid of limerence. I've now written a much more comprehensive recovery plan here: Overcoming limerence For all its promise …
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What is limerence?
Limerence is a mental state of profound romantic infatuation, first defined in the 1970s by the psychologist Dorothy Tennov. It is characterised by an initial period of elation and intense emotional …
Back to basics
Here's some interesting information about Living with limerence: 186 posts189,432 words10,107 comments1,409,159 words in comments That's a lot of words, thoughts, ideas, and discussed lives. …
Good LOs
Some limerents have to battle with limerent objects that are bad for them. Maybe their LO is narcissistic, maybe they are flaky, or maybe they are unavailable but nevertheless keep playing with the …
Update and a little light relief
A couple of weeks ago, I asked you what you wanted, and you replied! Many thanks to all those that completed the survey on what you want more of here at LwL. Here are the results: I have to …
Case study: stalked by LO
The consequences of a limerence episode can last longer than we want. Jasmine got in touch recently, regarding a problem that has no easy solution. Her LO is stalking her. The knee-jerk …