Big moment this, for me. I've been blogging here at LwL for seven years, under a pseudonym. There were various reasons why, but looking back on the first ever post, I was obviously concerned about …
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Coffeehouse: signs you’re not over them
Time for another open thread for discussions about all things limerence. This week's opening topic is prompted by Mila's comment in the last coffeehouse post: Signs that you haven’t completely …
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Midlife crisis for limerents
Note: this is an updated version of a previous post Midlife is an interesting time. It begins to dawn on you that whatever endeavours you threw yourself into in early adulthood are coming to …
New project: dealing with limerence in marriage
I've been blogging recently about the impact of limerence on long-term relationships, and the devastating effect it can have on a marriage. It's been sobering to read accounts of the effect of …
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Is polyamory a solution for limerence?
Unexpected limerence in a marriage is tough. There are several reasons why married limerents might become vulnerable to the allure of a new limerent object. It's easy to slip into a state of benign …
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Limerence in the Observer
Big week for me this week. I finished the new book and sent it to my publisher! That was easy It's great to have reached that milestone, and by one of those strange coincidences of fate, my …