2022 is nearly done. It's been quite a year. In the UK we've been through three Prime Ministers and two Monarchs. It's fair to say there's been a lot of change. The last few posts have been …
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Coffeehouse: limerence at Christmas
Another year rolls round to its end, and here in the UK we've had some proper Christmassy weather, with subzero temperatures and a frost-bedecked world. The betting markets are doing their usual …
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How to get over someone who doesn’t want you
In the beginning, an obsessive infatuation can feel amazing. Not only do you get the natural giddy high of euphoria, but the romantic surrender of being completely besotted also has fairy-tale appeal. …
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Sources of conflict
Here's a provocative and stimulating video about sexual conflict in humans: https://youtu.be/mu4Uki8VyLc I have to confess that my first reaction to the talk was scepticism, for two reasons. …
Cultivating purpose
I started this blog in February 2017. At the time, I was coming down from a brutal limerence episode, and my primary motive was to exorcise the lingering feelings that were clinging on, and to …
Limerence is in vogue
Sorry, couldn't resist the pun. The latest issue of Vogue has an article on limerence written by Fleur Britten. I had a good chat with her about limerence, neuroscience and recovery strategies, …