Big week for me this week. I finished the new book and sent it to my publisher! That was easy It's great to have reached that milestone, and by one of those strange coincidences of fate, my …
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Coffeehouse: time travel wisdom
Time for another LwL coffeehouse post. For those new to the site, these posts are intended for open discussion about any aspects of limerence and how it affects our lives. And where fabulous …
Can a marriage recover from limerence?
I've written many times about the impact on a marriage of developing limerence for someone new. It's an existential threat under the worst conditions, and a serious hardship even in the best-managed …
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Hazardous limerent objects
In the last post we covered how fruitless it is to try and blame a limerent object for your own unwanted limerence. Even if they are to blame, it doesn't help your recovery. I stick by that principle, …
Who is to blame for limerence?
Note: this is an updated version of a previous post Limerence can be well described as an altered state of mind. Once the infatuation for someone new sets in, it changes your perceptions, your …
Communication after an affair
Super busy with the last push to complete my book at the moment, so in lieu of a blog post, here's a video. It's a productive discussion between two therapists who come to the issue of infidelity from …