It's 2025! Resolutions start tomorrow The Christmas to New Year lull is a wonderfully lazy time for me, so no blog post this week, except to say that I haven't been entirely idle. Here's …
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Guest post: Limerence as a force for revolution
This week, another guest post by my wonderful wife, Teika, all about the significance of limerence in literature, and in shaping individual lives and larger social forces. Enjoy! Cover art by …
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Coffeehouse: Christmas limerence
It's that time of year when it always feels as though things should be winding down for Christmas, but in fact, Christmas preparations are just being added to the business of everyday life. The …
YouTube channel launch
As teased in the last post, I’ve finally got around to setting up a YouTube channel and posting my first video. It’s a super quick and simple channel intro, but the main thing is that it’s …
Navel gazing at 400
Nicely cryptic title today. This post is the 400th post on the Living with Limerence site. That’s a lot of typing. And explains my posture I tend to use these milestones for myself - to …
The links between limerence and anxious attachment
One of the most striking observations in the study of limerence is the link to anxious attachment. My attempt to estimate the prevalence of limerence in the general population suggests that 50-60% of …
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