There are many painful aspects to being trapped in limerence. Once the thrills of euphoria have given way to the lows of person addiction, you have all the negative consequences of cravings, …
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Unmasking Narcissism
A couple of weeks ago, I had a really interesting chat with Sarah Khan on her Unmasking Narcissism channel. We talked about limerence, trauma bonding, narcissism, healthy love, and how they all …
On not knowing what you want
Note: this is an updated version of an older post. Limerence upends life. Whatever your situation when a new LO appears in your world, everything changes. The disruption is probably …
A new way to look at love
Here's a recording of the talk I gave a couple of weeks ago in Harrogate, to a general audience who were not necessarily familiar with the concept of limerence. It's a rehearsal, so not as slick or …
Coffeehouse: postmenopausal limerence
Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffeehouse, where all things life and limerence can be discussed. I lurve the java jive This week, I’d like to kick things off with a discussion about …
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Obsessive love explained
Another busy week for me, so here's my latest YouTube video about why limerence exists: https://youtu.be/y9EbF68EMGo?si=vq5KyCCVZ1a1KS9k Romantic love is great, and there are obvious reasons …