I get lots of emails. Lots of people are struggling with limerence. Understandable, really, given that addiction to another person has a hugely disruptive effect on life. What? I'm …
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Finding purposeful work
Last summer, after a quarter of a century working as an academic scientist, I quit my job. Some of my friends thought I was mad. Tenured positions in elite universities are highly sought after, I’d …
Bits and pieces of news
Another busy week in the Bellamy household, so just a quick update on events this week. First up is the latest YouTube video - all about midlife limerence. …
Youtube milestone and job opening
Yay! I hit the 10K subs milestone on my YouTube channel this morning. I've also hit the point where I need help. I'm looking for a freelance video editor with experience of editing talking …
Coffeehouse: what being a limerent means for your love life
The time has come for another open house discussion thread in the LwL Coffeehouse. *Sslluurrpp* This week, I have a specific topic on my mind. I first started this blog after a bad limerence …
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Playing with fire
Note: this is an updated version of an earlier post It's not an easy thing to abstain from bliss. For limerents in a long-term relationship who are suddenly struck by limerence for someone …