For six years, I have written this blog, and added a new post every Saturday morning at 9 am UK time. This is the first week that I thought I would not manage it. It is currently 11:52 pm on …
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What makes a good romantic partner?
Life has really happened to me this week, so in lieu of the next post on purposeful living, here's a video that is cheering and optimistic about how to find love: …
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Morality, limerence and purposeful living
A couple of years ago, I read the book "The Righteous Mind" by Jonathan Haidt. For those unfamiliar, it introduces the concept of Moral Foundations Theory, which emerged from Haidt's research into the …
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Case study: why is limerence so painful?
Prolonged limerence is painful. Today's case study is from Lara, who is well versed with the principles of recovery we espouse here at LwL, but is nonetheless struggling with this part of the …
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Honesty as a foundation for purposeful living
In the last post I outlined some of the key elements of purposeful living. Today, I'm going to dive a bit deeper into one of the foundational principles: honesty. Honesty can be interpreted in …
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The elements of purposeful living
One of the main goals of this site is to help people make sense of what's happening to them during limerence. Understanding that such intense romantic infatuation is a defined phenomenon, that it has …