Book extras

Welcome to the bonus section for readers of the Living with Limerence book.

You’ve read the book, now what’s next?

Guided tour:

The blog has been running since 2017 and currently clocks in at around 160 thousand words. Of course, every last one is worth reading (!), but just in case you’re a little pushed for time, we’ve curated the most important, most influential, and most read posts into a handy guided tour that goes deeper into the themes of the book.

Part 1: Limerence

The three phases of limerence

How long does limerence last?

The loneliness of limerence

Wanting versus liking

The definition of limerence

Part 2: Limerent objects

Limerence for a co-worker

More on midlife limerence

Who is to blame for limerence?

Spotting trouble: LOs to avoid

The allure of bad boys and girls

Part 3: Living with limerence

Common mistakes limerents make

What to do if you are married but limerent for someone else

Deprogramming the limerent brain

How to get rid of limerence

The best cure for limerence

Finally, we also have a free quickstart guide for those who are trying to overcome unwanted limerence:

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