Life, love, and limerence
Just a quick update post this week, as I've been doing a lot of outreach. Here is the latest news... This week's YouTube video revisits the classic question of why you can't get over your …
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At various points in the past, I've written about the power of stories and how we can be attracted to archetypal figures, but I've never really gone deep on the topic because (I have to confess) I …
It's 2025! Resolutions start tomorrow The Christmas to New Year lull is a wonderfully lazy time for me, so no blog post this week, except to say that I haven't been entirely idle. Here's …
I often take a rather negative view of limerence. The majority of articles on the site come from the perspective that limerence needs to be managed or constrained or beaten or reversed, despite my …
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One of the defining features of limerence is the soul-aching desire to be close to your limerent object. That’s because limerence is a drive to form a pair bond - in order to make babies, propagate …
Workplace crushes are very common. In the past, before the advent of dating apps and social media, workplace relationships were also very common. Many people met their future spouse through work, or …
