Today’s case study is from Owen, who has begun to realise the unexpected impact that limerence has had on his life. I’ve never been in a relationship or really gone beyond the first couple of …
The No Contact checklist
No Contact is a tried and tested method for breaking the limerence habit. It's also more complicated than it first seems. Have you tried just stopping? There are a few posts scattered …
Coffeehouse: talking limerence with Fenna
Another month has rolled around, and so it's time for another trip to the LwL coffeehouse. Come one, come all This time, I'm delighted to share a discussion I had with trauma specialist, …
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Misperception of romantic interest
Hope is a big part of limerence. Hope that a romantic relationship might be possible. Hope that they might feel the same way about you. Hope that you might get to experience the ecstatic …
Evolutionary traps for limerents
From time to time, the topic of monogamy and human mating strategies comes up in discussions about limerence. Obviously mating behaviour will have a big bearing on limerence, and I've argued …
A new guide on how to find love as a limerent
A few weeks ago, I floated the idea of creating resources for people who are limerent, with all the complications in love that creates, but who are not looking for a "cure" or trying to get rid of …
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