2022 is nearly done. It's been quite a year. In the UK we've been through three Prime Ministers and two Monarchs. It's fair to say there's been a lot of change. The last few posts have been …
Coffeehouse: limerence at Christmas
Another year rolls round to its end, and here in the UK we've had some proper Christmassy weather, with subzero temperatures and a frost-bedecked world. The betting markets are doing their usual …
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How to get over someone who doesn’t want you
In the beginning, an obsessive infatuation can feel amazing. Not only do you get the natural giddy high of euphoria, but the romantic surrender of being completely besotted also has fairy-tale appeal. …
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Coffeehouse: transferring limerence
Today's topic of discussion is proposed by Cassie: You wrote about transfer to other relationships in a previous blog. After months and months of thinking what to do, I have just ended one …
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Case study: when No Contact doesn’t work
Today's case study is a good one. Serena got in touch about how to deal with a tough problem: when no contact doesn't work. The backstory is a little complicated, so I'll summarise the highlights. …
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Case study: finding purpose out of limerence
One of the abiding themes of this site is that purposeful living is the fastest way to recover from limerence, and to protect yourself against future episodes. An additional benefit of that …
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