Here's a provocative and stimulating video about sexual conflict in humans: https://youtu.be/mu4Uki8VyLc I have to confess that my first reaction to the talk was scepticism, for two reasons. …
Limerence is in vogue
Sorry, couldn't resist the pun. The latest issue of Vogue has an article on limerence written by Fleur Britten. I had a good chat with her about limerence, neuroscience and recovery strategies, …
How to change your behaviour for the better
One of the few benefits that can come from an episode of unwanted limerence is being forced to face some home truths about what you're doing with your life. There's nothing like the emotional storm of …
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For those who are stuck
Following on from last week's discussion about whether fighting for a relationship is a good idea, the opposite problem is also a common trigger for limerence... Should I stay with them? …
A research project on limerence
I've lamented before about the lack of research specifically aimed at understanding limerence as a psychological phenomenon. The LwL Guide to Limerence summarises the evidence base for interested …
Is your limerent object a narcissist?
One of the recurrent themes that comes up when trying to make sense of a difficult limerent object, is the concept of narcissism. It's quite satisfying if you've been ensnared by a self-centered …
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